I'm sure you have either heard or uttered the following when giving feedback, we all have:
“If you don’t hear from me, then you are doing just fine.”
“The squeaky wheel gets the grease.”
“A self-motivated employee really does not need any feedback.”
“If I provide any positive feedback, my employees will just slack off.”
You certainly are not alone. But here's some feedback for you: you could be creating an environment that will demoralize and demotivate your employees.
For a person to grow they need feedback; positive feedback to reinforce all the beneficial contributions and impact they have had as an employee and constructive feedback to redirect what is not working well. If someone is working in a vacuum of “feedbacklessness” it is likely their flame of productivity will simply extinguish and any poor behaviors or sub-par performance habits will continue.
As a leader, the growth and development of the people on your team is one of the most important roles you have and real growth can only happen if you are providing appropriate reinforcement and effective feedback.
The following is an example of sincere, proactive, effective feedback from a manager:
“I regularly hear from your employees that they truly believe you always have their best interest in mind by regularly showing them genuine appreciation for their successes and contributions, but you are also willing to provide them “tough love” if they need to hear something they could improve on or should change. Your team is consistently out performing others and I would like for you to help our company create and reinforce a similar culture with other teams. As a result I would to offer you a position of…"
As a manager and leader, establishing a culture of consistent reinforcement and constructive feedback in an honest, sincere and supportive manner is a gift that will significantly increase the development of your team members, along with their ability to positively impact the achievement of your organizational goals and objectives.